This is a term I've been introduced to only this year. According to R, a cuddle buddy (CB) is the female version of a fuck buddy (FB) - which seems kind of sexist but a bit true when you think about it. A FB is someone you go for no-strings sexy times; A CB is someone you go for no-strings cuddle times. Both may or may not be successful. That is, it might actually have complications with regards to the feelings of one or more parties.
With regards to either generally and to CBs specifically, there are some questions I have in my head and should be in the minds of those who are looking for one!
Is it better to have a friend or a stranger as a CB?
- If the former, a close friend or someone closer to an aquaintance?
Would you ever go on a site looking for one? (granted, I'm pretty sure there isn't one in my area)
What are the risks involved?
What can you do to protect yourself for these risks?
Showing posts with label vocabulary. Show all posts
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Sunday, December 30, 2012
Sunday, May 6, 2012
Kerfuffle: A Difference in Opinion
Just this afternoon, my brother and I were talking about "big words" and the people who use them. These "big words" which usually have at least 3 syllables aren't usually used in daily life and often have simpler counterparts.
Example: kerfuffle.
According to him, it is better to use smaller words, especially in writing. This is so the reader is able to better understand the text.
Example: fuss.
But the word kerfuffle to me is different from the word fuss: The essence may be the same, but there are differences between the two, as two slices of new york cheesecake from different sources may have different tastes, textures, presentation and price. I myself am fond of the former example because of the light-heartedness the word implies for me (because it sounds close to fluff).
As to NOT knowing the meaning of the word, a dictionary (or dictionary app) can always be used to find its definition. Sometimes, it is not even needed! The use of context clues may help clarify the meaning of the word. In fact, children often learn what words mean without being given the actual definition of a word.
Learning is a wonderful thing.
Warning!
If you do decide to use big words, you should be very aware of what these words actually mean. There is the chance of embarrassment when pointed out by a more knowledgeable companion.
Also, be prepared to be called a pompous pie hole and the like.
Example: kerfuffle.
According to him, it is better to use smaller words, especially in writing. This is so the reader is able to better understand the text.
Example: fuss.
But the word kerfuffle to me is different from the word fuss: The essence may be the same, but there are differences between the two, as two slices of new york cheesecake from different sources may have different tastes, textures, presentation and price. I myself am fond of the former example because of the light-heartedness the word implies for me (because it sounds close to fluff).
As to NOT knowing the meaning of the word, a dictionary (or dictionary app) can always be used to find its definition. Sometimes, it is not even needed! The use of context clues may help clarify the meaning of the word. In fact, children often learn what words mean without being given the actual definition of a word.
Learning is a wonderful thing.
Warning!
If you do decide to use big words, you should be very aware of what these words actually mean. There is the chance of embarrassment when pointed out by a more knowledgeable companion.
Also, be prepared to be called a pompous pie hole and the like.
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